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Logan had a difficult evening last night. By difficult, I mean, difficult for her, not that she was being difficult. You see, she’s had a cough for 2 weeks and I think now all that gross sludge is starting to drain, and the poor thing does not know how to deal with it. She coughs in the middle of the night and it wakes her, and then she cries out to be comforted. At about 1am, the 4th time or so she cried out after going to bed a 7pm, I brought her to bed with me. I kept her head on the crook of my arm (so she could breathe better) and nursed her to sleep. We fell asleep like that. A couple of hours later, she awoke again (I can’t say that same for my arm though) and cried and cried. We went through our whole repertoire—shushing, nursing, me kissing her forehead, rubbing her chest, and fall asleep until she wakes up again from coughing an hour or 2 later.

Nights like these remind me so much of what it is to be a mother. Don’t get me wrong though—nights like these are HARD, especially because my alarm clock goes off to remind me that I have to drag my butt out of bed to go to work. But, through bleary eyes (and the dark circles under them), I see how special these nights are. When we are awake and alone, while she nurses and plays with my hair. She needs me, and I’m there to comfort her. And really, to me, motherhood has been as simple as that. My child needs me, and I’m there for her.

I hope she feels better soon. It’s no fun being sick :(

Feb 29, 201216 notes
Feb 25, 20126 notes
My So-Called (TTC) Life: Cloth Diapering 2.0 → mysocalledttclife.tumblr.com

mysocalledttclife:

You guys have ALL been SO helpful with your comments and advice on this! Man, you really can ask 10 women and you get 10 different answers.

What I’m thinking is this and you guys tell me if I’m crazy and/or wrong:

@BumpyJourney on Twitter suggested I look into the AWESOME free cloth diaper…

My pail just hangs, no can. No stink unless I stick my head in there and take a deep breath :)

Our homemade diaper sprayer has plenty of pressure (that it has on some occasions sprayed poop on our floor).

The problem with detergent is you want to avoid buildup because that’s what causes stink problems. For us, I’ve found that rinsing 2 extra times after a full cycle prevents that. You also want to use ENOUGH detergent because otherwise, you get yucky diapers.

I think the cloth diaper trial is worth it. I pretty much made up my own little cloth diaper trial and it gets expensive.

As far as cloth wipes, I just cut up some old cotton t-shirts that Joe wasn’t wearing anymore and those are great. We don’t have a warmer but I’m thinking if you have one for regular wipes and your baby is used to warm wipes, you might want them? We have never warmed wipes for Logan and she doesn’t mind. As far as cleaning her, I have my peri bottle from the hospital that I put a couple of squirts of baby soap, some baby oil, and water and I wet the wipes as I use them (so they sit dry in a pile in our diaper changing “station”).

I also highly recommend diaperswappers.com for information. They have a TON of information and personal experiences from other mamas who cloth diaper.

Feb 21, 20126 notes
#cloth diaper
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Feb 17, 20127 notes
My So-Called (TTC) Life: Cloth Diaper Debate → mysocalledttclife.tumblr.com

mysocalledttclife:

Until recently, I’d never really considered cloth diapering. But my middle sister, who is expecting twin girls in April and who already has a 20 month old in diapers, recently attended a workshop on cloth diapering and is planning on making the switch.

So it got me thinking: should we be cloth…

Hey B!

We cloth diaper, and LOVE it :) It’s just hard now that I’m working because we only use cloth at night and weekends. I actually miss being environmentally friendly. Logan’s daycare provides disposables as part of tuition and so she wears sposies there. Here are my two cents!

1) This really depends on the type of diaper system you get. I tried them all. I do like all-in-ones (aio’s) and those don’t have different parts. They’re the closest you could get to a disposable diaper in terms of convenience because you put on baby, take ‘em off, then wash them. I also have pockets and for that one, once it’s soiled (pee and poop), you have to replace the whole system (it’s 2 parts—the cover with a pocket and an insert that goes in the pocket). The cool thing about this system is that you can customize the absorbency by adding more inserts or using different fibers that hold more liquid (like hemp or bamboo). The system you’re talking about sounds more like the cotton prefolds with a polyurethane laminate (PUL) liner. I have these too but stopped using them when Logan grew out of the size small. This one, when soiled, and if the poop doesn’t get through the prefold and touch the cover, you can re-use and just replace the prefold. Some people still use pins for the prefolds but I used a Snappi. When I used this (mostly when Logan was about 6 weeks to maybe 3 mos old?), I replaced the covers once they were pooped on or when it was time to do laundry, which was about every other day at the time.

-As far as rinsing, Joe built a diaper sprayer that attaches to the toilet. Some people dunk their diapers, but I just couldn’t do that. He found instructions online. It’s pretty much like a kitchen sink sprayer but attached to the toilet. I think he spent $15-$20 on the things he needed from Home Depot. We used it a lot more when Logan didn’t eat solids yet, but right now, her poops are pretty formed so we don’t need to spray the diapers. It’s definitely good to have, especially when the baby starts solids and the poop isn’t so solid…

-How many diapers? Hmmm…we have more than we need ;) This depends on how often you want to wash them. I think 24 is a good number. If you go the prefolds route, I’d  say 24 prefolds and maybe 4-6 covers. The only thing with prefolds though is that they’re not stay-dry, so the baby will feel wet. This isn’t so bad during the day when you’re changing the baby every 2 hours or so, but might be a problem at night. We use pockets at night for this reason.

-I put our dirty dipes in the Fuzzibunz hanging pail. I’ve never tried other pails but I love this one. It’s made out of PUL and has a zipper at the bottom so come laundry time I just unzip and dump the diapers in the washer and I’m done!

-I don’t use special detergent and have used regular Tide and right now I use Woolite. I’ve never had stink problems. Ok wait, that’s a lie. The only time I’ve had stink problems was when I wait too long to do laundry (damn full-time job!). But when I was still on maternity leave and did them every other day, no stinkies! My washing routine (and you’ll find many people have their own tried and tested routine!) includes a cold rinse, hot wash with detergent (always a cap-full), and 2 cold rinses after. Sometimes I use about 1/4 cup bleach with the hot wash (maybe every 4-6 weeks). This is controversial, but I like clean diapers :) I also used to hang dry all the covers/pockets and just dried the inserts. And, the sun does wonders on stains.

-The best brands for us are Bumgenius by Cotton Babies (I like the Elementals <all-in-ones> and the 4.0 <pocket>) and Blueberry. These are the 2 brands that are currently in rotation. I tried Fuzzibunz in the beginning but couldn’t get a good fit around Logan’s legs—they were either too tight and left red marks or too loose and we got leaks. I also tried Grovia, Alva, Sunbaby, and Green Mountain Diaper prefold with Thirsties covers (which I loved too, but just don’t use anymore).

-Honestly, now that I use disposables too, not that much time. Putting the cloth in the laundry and washing isn’t a time-suck, especially if you have a newer washer that you can pre-program (I don’t). Folding takes a good 15-20 mins. And that’s it!

-I’m the wrong person to ask about how much to spend because I spent way too much :) And, depending on the system you go with, you can get away with cloth diapering with a pretty small budget (prefolds + covers) and a bigger budget (everything else). Diapers cost about $15-$20 each, and most places, like Cotton Babies (they sell Bumgenius), have package deals.

So, there you have it. Honestly, I loved cloth diapering full-time and if daycare would do it, I would give them cloth diapers for Logan. But they don’t for sanitary purposes. I didn’t mind the laundry at all when I was home (it’s harder now that I’m working) and I never really had any complaints. I do use disposables on Logan when I take her to daycare now because there were a couple of times when I sent her with cloth on, then she pooped, and that poop sat there the whole day, waiting for me to take it home. And that’s just nasty. Anyway, I highly recommend cloth :)

There are a TON of systems and a TON of information and a TON of brands, so send me a message if you want more info on our experience!

Feb 16, 201212 notes
#cloth diaper
Feb 14, 201216 notes
Free Bamboobies! → shop.buybamboobies.com

You just pay shipping! These were my favorite nursing pads in those first few months of nursing. They don’t show through your bra, they’re super absorbent, and super soft! Go get yourself a pair! I actually got 2 pairs when they ran this same special last summer :)

Feb 10, 20122 notes
A long time coming

Seven and a half months, to be exact.

Joe and I are going out on a date! Alone! No baby!

And the flurry of questions in my head:

But I’ve never left Logan alone at night. What if she wakes up? I nurse her to sleep—would she happily take a bottle instead and fall right back asleep? Oh my God, should Joe and I go alone, or should we invite one of our couple friends that we love hanging out with? Where should we go? Can I just stay home and sleep instead while somebody tends to Logan?????

And last night, Joe asked, “Couldn’t we just take her with us???”. And yes, I considered that, too.

But with Valentine’s Day next week, I figured, it’s a good opportunity to actually get a sitter and go out! We decided we’d rather do it on a Friday night though since I don’t want to have to worry about having to get home at a decent time so I’m not super tired in the morning for work.

It’s so exciting, the whole prospect of a date night. I get to wear a sexy dress (and not worry about whether or not I could breastfeed in it), I get to take a smaller purse (and not a diaper bag), we get to eat somewhere with nice tablecloth (and not worry about whether or not they have highchairs, if it’s loud enough so Logan practicing her vocals isn’t noticed much by the other patrons), I get to enjoy a glass of wine (and not wonder if Logan would all of sudden decide she wanted to nurse in the middle of dinner). So many things! Now, we’ll just have to make sure not to talk about Logan all through dinner and I think we’re set.

Man, I swear, this feels almost like a first date!

Feb 9, 201216 notes
New York Times Article on Co-Sleeping/Bedsharing → nytimes.com

This article is older, but still good. Logan has been night waking a lot lately, and after getting yet more advice today to just let her cry-it-out, I had to find something to make me feel better about not wanting to do that. I think I will try bedsharing again some nights, if only to eliminate me having to get out of bed to go to her. I stopped at 4 months because she was waking up a lot, but at the rate she’s going now, it doesn’t even matter! Ha.

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Our Beach Baby.: Mamas & Papas, we DESPERATELY need sleep advice! → ourbeachbaby.com

ourbeachbaby:

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Recently, Drew’s sleeping has gone HAYWIRE. Maybe it’s teething, maybe it’s his cough? But regardless, everything that used to work has gone straight out the window. I haven’t finished started Kim West’s “Good Night Sleep Tight” book {who has time to read anyway??}.

In a nutshell, Drew now…

Hey Tessa!

Logan has never slept more than 5 hours in a row, and even then she’s only done it once, maybe twice. So, I’m not sure I’d have too much advice but here are my two cents anyway :)

  • Do you {or have you} used the cry-in-out method? Did it work? How many nights/days did it take for your baby to start sleeping and not crying?

I’ve only let Logan cry-it-out once or twice, and realized that this approach is just not for her. She gets really frustrated, and I found that it was easier for me to soothe her soon after she starts crying (after I put her in her crib) because she would fall right back to sleep. The times I let her cry, she got so worked up that I ended up spending more time soothing her and it took her longer to actually fall back asleep. But, I have let her fuss-it-out. Basically, she’s not really crying, just making whining noises with no tears :)

  • When your baby wakes up in the middle of the night, are they normally hungry? Is it easy for them to go right back to sleep? Do you rock them to sleep?

Logan still wakes up 2-3 times in the middle of the night most nights. And yes, she is still hungry. She drinks about 16-20oz of milk while at daycare, and I nurse her twice in the morning and a few times at night before bed. She also eats lunch and dinner (about 1/3 of a cup of pureed food). And when she wakes up and I nurse her, she is sucking hard, so it’s not just for comfort. She eats until I letdown once, then lets go. I put her down, give her the paci, and she’s out again. This takes about 10-15 mins total. And no, I don’t rock her—I just hold her and feed her and down she goes again.

  • What time is your baby’s bedtime?

This really depends on her last nap. Sometimes, she falls asleep when we’re on our way home from daycare, and sometimes not. I try to put her down about 2 to 2 1/2 hours after her last nap. This ends up being between 7-8 pm. I don’t notice a difference in how well she sleeps at night based on when she goes down, although when I tried to do a set bedtime (regardless of when her last nap was), I found that I was putting her down too early some nights, which resulted in a struggle. She just wasn’t tired and it would take an hour for her to sleep! If I would’ve just waited another hour, we could’ve played and done other fun things and she would’ve slept quicker when she was ready.

  • When your baby takes naps, is it the same time each day? Do you use a sound machine for naps?

At daycare, she naps around the same time each day, although there is no set schedule. They don’t enforce schedules until they’re at least a year, which I’m happy with. Logan usually takes 2-3 naps per day. Once in the morning, then noon/early afternoon, then maybe in the late afternoon depending on how long her 2nd nap is. Also, I’ve noted that she naps about 4 hours a day total, regardless of how many naps she takes. And yes, I do have white noise for her at home and they have it in the crib room at daycare. Mine at home is an ocean waves track I downloaded on iTunes that I play on a speaker dock. It’s pretty loud in there, and Joe has said it sounds like an airplane. But our house echoes and Joe is just loud in everything we do, so, white noise it is :)

  • Any other helpful tips/suggestions?

Honestly, I’m kinda just going with the flow. I’ve found that replicating all the things we did when Logan sleeps longer some nights, it doesn’t necessarily yield the same results. I do put her down awake now (not something I even tried to do, she just doesn’t really fall asleep on the boob at bedtime anymore), and she kind of plays a little bit and then goes to sleep on her own. She has a paci in her crib that helps her stay asleep. She also has a small blanket as a lovey. And it’s pitch black in there at night. I don’t make any noise when I go in her room to feed her—I just pick her up and nurse her and then she goes back down (I may sneak a kiss or 2 in there). I’m sorry this isn’t super helpful but I figured she’s waking up for a reason and whatever it is, I’m there to help! :) I hope you get more sleep soon. I’m pretty tired too, but my cafeteria lattes have really helped!

Feb 3, 201218 notes
#sleep
Feb 2, 201214 notes
#thrifting #thrifted
Feb 2, 201214 notes
See Kai Run Shoes ON SALE

On www.myhabit.com

I’ve heard a lot of great things and I purchased a pair for Logan yesterday. I thought they’d be sold out by now but there are lots of pairs to be had (for boys AND girls!). Must. Control. Myself.

:)

Feb 1, 20121 note
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